Sex is not love;
Love is not sex.
Sex is not a game like golf,
Abusive sex humiliates and demeans.
Even animals do not engage in sex for "fun".
Healthy sex is the result of deep love.
Sex is pleasure and peace
When it results from love.
Sex for "fun" is transferable:
Any warm body will serve the purpose.
Love is devotion and adoration,
Respect, care, companionship.
Sex for fun is gone in an instant.
Love lasts through joy and tragedy,
Good times and turmoil.
Love lasts even when sex is not possible.
Love protects and endures.
Love is there when all else fails.
Abusive sex uses the partner as a toilet.
Now do you understand the difference?